难道，再也没有真挚吗？

处于视觉化社会的我们，自然而然地运用视觉的感官出判断一件东西的好与坏。现今的人类活得太匆忙，没有所谓的时间去深入了解好或坏，所以只好出此下策。

徘徊于这视觉社会，潜意识告诉我们只要是美丽的、漂亮的，就是完美无暇。所以社会变得更加现实和残忍。因为 人类 呢，学会了淘汰没有美观的东西，甚至开始不在乎其深层的好。

未免自己被社会淘汰，我们开始为自己塑造成社会想要的完美一面。我们不惜为达此目的而戴上面具、步步为营、瞻前顾后，然后开始迷失了自己，继而被这现实主义当成扯线公仔，任由摆布。

我们丧失了当初的纯真和真挚，因为日久的伪装摧埋没了原本的自我。

有时候，你会扪心自问，比起那曾经真实的自己，现在的自己到底变了多少呢？甚至你也会不禁自问，与你一起携手渡过每一天的那位伴，是否正在当真正的他/她呢？

改变并非不好，最重要的是，别因为受不住这花花世界的诱惑而迷失自己。

做原来的自己、说真诚的话、用真心待人。当每个人都能够做好本份的话，那么又何必需要戴着面具去防别人呢？

只要坚守自己的那份坚持和原则，那么你就会自然地用真挚去待人。

我怀念的

从硬碟里翻出那些年的照片，一股怀念之情涌上脑袋里。

当初在阿德雷德求学，常常埋怨为何那城市太过清静，毫无色彩似的，所以开始向往墨尔本大城市般的生活。

可是当自己移居墨尔本之后，才发现那小城市的好。

就是那份宁静，让他的生活写意、轻松许多。没有吵杂的噪音，只有曾经踏足过的脚印 - 图书馆、老街、花园等等。

还有与一群好朋友的郊外旅游，大家趁个周末，去沙滩玩趟水、捕些螃蟹、享受阳光。

工作以后，虽然偶尔能够抽个时间走走，但还是不及当年所渡过的时光，真怀念啊。

  

如今人事亦非，昔日的党员们都各奔东西，往各自的未来出发了。可是这份难忘的回忆和那宁静之都的宁静，依然深深烙印在我的脑海里，挥不去。

这就是我，一个怀旧的人。得空时放个空，好让自己回忆从前所有的开心日子，告诉自己是多么的庆幸能够 拥有这些从满欢乐的记忆。

我就是我，认同我的原则的人请乘搭我的幸福列车。不认同的，很高兴认识您，有缘再见。

還是要幸福

实力型的女歌手，是我的最爱。不需要虚伪的包装，只需要天籁般的嗓子，就能感动真正的音乐欣赏者。

田馥甄，继续为好音乐努力吧！

不確定就別親吻 感情很容易毀了一個人
一個人若不夠狠 愛淡了不離不棄多殘忍

你留下來的垃圾 我一天一天總會丟完的
我甚至真心真意的祝福 永恆在你的身上先發生

你還是要幸福 你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕 別跟著我 銘心 刻骨

你還是要幸福 我才能確定我還得很清楚
確定自己再也不會佔據 你的篇幅
明天 開始 這一切都結束

還我鑰匙的備份 我覺得再見可以很單純
我甚至真心真意的祝福 永恆在你的身上先發生

你還是要幸福 你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕 別跟著我 銘心 刻骨

你還是要幸福 我才能確定我還得很清楚
確定自己再也不會佔據 你的篇幅
明天 開始 這一切都結束

你還是要幸福 你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕 別跟著我 銘心 刻骨

你如果很幸福 半夜的簡訊我就無需回覆
因為你的悲喜已經有了 容身之處 我也 能有 最純粹的孤獨




最孤獨的孤獨

打工族的心声

从前，还未踏入工作社会的时候，对那些正在上班而常常喊累的朋友感到不解。

多年以后，当自己加入上班族的生涯之后，才真正了解当年卖埋下的不解。

不管连续8个小时的脑汁榨干或无所事事，任何人在下班之后都一脸快要累垮的样子。

有些人，只想回家，静静地渡过轻松的一晚。

有些人，只想把剩余的精力全部耗尽，然后直接回家倒在床上。

无论你是任何类型的上班族，大家也只想能够

被上司赞赏

拥有精彩的差事

融洽的工作环境

存点积储为将来打算

旅个行、充充电

疼个人、被人疼

保持身体健康

有个安全的避风港

等等

看似无止尽的清单，可是只要尽力完成让自己开心的事，那就够了。

别让这段漫长的人生阶段，盗走你曾经拥有的笑容。

Phuket 2012

这就是人生!

家

感谢老板的爱戴和仁慈，让我这个刚加入公司不久的新丁能够放个农历新年的假期。

所以我回了老家一趟。

踏入家乡之土不过数日，又再匆匆地拿起那和我拚天下的背包，去了普吉岛。谁是我的同行者呢？

他们是我一班认识许久的中学朋友，大家都是为了梦想而活着的和平爱好者。

去了六天，见证了其岛的美丽风景、热情的夜生活、凉爽的海风、轻松的海滩和一望无际的地平线。

人生不就该活得如此吗？工作不忘了休息，休息后就收拾心情再继续往前冲。活久了，看透无数的生离死别，觉得活在当下，却保持自己的生活方向和原则，这样才能够开开心心地渡过每一天。

告别了美丽的岛屿飞回老家，正式开始农历新年的庆祝大计。与朋友们相聚、彼此更新彼此的近况，大家都畅谈甚欢，似乎没有时间造成的生疏感。陪了家人，一来解了亲情的思念之苦，二来确保大家都幸福安康。

就这样，这趟家乡之旅，来匆匆去匆匆，只怪开始工作以后真的很难讨得悠长的假期。既然选择在国外打拼，就已经预算必须牺牲生活里的某些人与事物。最重要的是保持愉快的心情渡过每一天，因为自己心里非常清楚本身的回归之日，约定于雨过天晴的那一天。虽然不知何时，至少那份信仰给予我最需要的希望。

别再为无谓的坚持而让自己却步，因为岁月不等待你的蹉跎。懂得该何时、如何放手去尝试未来。用冒险的心情去闯探前方，人生自然而然的多了一份精彩和色彩。别执著于那些不为你而随从的人和事物，因为过分的执著只带来痛苦和失去更多的好时机。

是时候展开你们的翅膀，勇往直前吧！希望大家在新的一年里，实现更多的梦想。

而我呢，正在逐步实现我的人生大计。谢谢那些曾经放弃过我的人，是你们让我学会如何在逆境中生存下来。

复仇计划，启动。

My deepest concern

Ever since I returned to my homeland for CNY celebration, I realised something that concerned me so much, thus making me worried for the worst to come.

It is about one of the ladies I love the most in my entire life, she's my grandmother, the mother of my mother. I started to get worried as she's getting more forgetful and losing her memories slowly. She doesn't remember what she has done even though it happened just a while ago. 

Sometimes we have to face the truth that the elders's abilities are getting deteriorated when the youngsters have become grown up. Remember this when you're treating the elders:

Be patient with them whenever they get clumsy and careless. They were patient with us when we were clumsy and careless kids before. 

Speak politely with them like how they spoke to us when we were kids before. It's not their willingness to forget things and therefore don't push all the blames on the elders.

Appreciate and love them more as time never waits for regrets and second chance. Every day is a blessing for the elders and we should feel happy for them.

Spend as much time you can with them, because they need listeners, not just a TV set to fill up their daily routine. The elders are humans too, so they need communications and interactions with the family and anyone to keep their mind alive and fresh.

It's inevitable that my grandma is going through the early stage of Alzheimer's disease. This truth pains my heart deeply as I'm so fearful that she might not recognize my face sometimes in future. 

What I can do the best is to spend more time with her chatting and loving her more.

How about you? Do you ever pay attention to your elders? Do not wait for the moments of regretting.

Arrival of the Dragon

A new cycle of Chinese lunar new year is finally here, with the dragon being the host of the year. It also indicates I'm turning 24 years old in this very good year.

As we getting grown up and matured eventually, the age of 24 is the beginning of planning the best life and future for ourselves. Every single decision made will affect how we walk in future, which could determine the success or failure for the rest of our life. No more naive and innocent thoughts like we had in our childhood and teenage, as we have to face the reality and truth. 

Do not stop your life for something or someone that do not give a damn on you. Just move on and bring along everything that cares about you and the other way around. It sounds simply cruel but life is short to care about things that leave you nothing but painful and sour memories. 

Enjoy life while planning carefully what is the best for your future. Because over-enjoying will spoil yourself and over-constraining will stress yourself up about the true meaning of living. So work hard with the mindset of achieving your life goal; securing a steady future with family and loved ones, and play hard with the mindset of charging your "battery" in order to prolong the journey of realizing life goals with happiness.

Life is all about balance. You balance between work and travel, pressure and enjoyment, love and beloved, sins and good deeds. So what's my plan for this year?

Continue working and growing with my awesome colleagues and company, more road trips and flying around, perhaps buying a car and appreciate everything I'm gaining. Looking forward to buying house when the time is right as well, it's time to do some investments.

So treat and love yourself well, be a better person throughout the year. Confidence will come consequently and that's the ultimate weapon to be fearless in this realistic world.

When the time is right, the right one will come to you, and you shall cherish and love the one with all your strength within your ability. It's a beautiful and happy thing to love and beloved by someone. So, appreciate!

Forgive everything by letting go the angers in your palms. They are toxic and do nothing good but making your life miserable.

Happy Chinese Year to everyone who pays attention on my blog. Love you all.

何必自找苦吃呢？

吃了这么多年的闭门羹，还是那么的厚脸皮、死缠烂打，何苦呢？

以为这样能够软化人心，可是又何必想得那么太傻、太天真呢？

受够活在别人的背影里。人生步伐不该浪费在这些无谓的等待，要双方认定对方，那代表缘分到了。要是苦苦挣扎换回来的，难道不感觉悲哀吗？

爱，是件开心、两人一起分享的喜悦，这样才能够长久下去。

是时候，彻底抛开那些不值得等待的事情，为自己前方的精彩人生而向前冲吧！

是你的，就是你的。

不是你的，如果努力过了还不是你的话，那么就只好送上温暖的怀抱当作散场的拥抱吧。

美好人生，还是需要继续，说不定更美好的景色就在前方。

我的储存档案里有你的微笑、纯真、善良和简单的友谊。

句号。

A Thousand Years - Christina Perri

Indeed, this is one of the most beautiful songs I heard since early this year

Enjoy the song, and the lyrics 

:)

Heart beats fast
Colors and promises
How to be brave
How can I love when I'm afraid
To fall
But watching you stand alone
All of my doubt
Suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

I have died everyday
waiting for you
Darlin' don't be afraid
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty I know she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything 
Take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath, 
Every hour has come to this

One step closer

I have died everyday

Waiting for you

Darlin' don't be afraid
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a 
Thousand more

And all along I believed
I would find you
Time has brought
Your heart to me
I have loved you for a 
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

I have died everyday
Waiting for you
Darlin' don't be afraid,
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

And all along I believed
I would find you
Time has brought 
Your heart to me
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a 
Thousand more